Wednesday, August 22, 2007


Having spent several hours placing Franczek's marker with the help of Joey and Peggy, I pleaded with them to accompany me to Florian. Since I had never been to that cemetery and only vaguely knew what to expect via cousin Kathy (Wilebski) Schafer, I was pretty nervous. As always, Joey and Peggy agreed to follow us down there.

Upon finding the cemetery, I looked around trying to find the existing grave marker. I at once saw a cross that looked identical in shape to the one that was on "Frank's" grave at Kroze. And, since I saw it in amongst other relatives such as the Kuznias and Kazmierzcaks, I was 90% certain I had found it. But, I told our placement guy, I wanted to be sure.

Kathy had indicated that Mike Kuznia, who lived nearby, would be there to meet us. Alas, no one was around, so I ended up going to the rectory where I met the deacon. I explained my plight and he provided a map of all the graves. This was a good thing since upon finding Antonia's name, it was on the opposite side of the cemetary.....Thank you lord Jesus!

When I finally located the site, Joey and Peggy were pulling up in their Sunday go to meeting sedan and joined us. I also went back to the deacon to see if we couldn't have a local "expert" tell us if we were doing things correctly according to their rules. The deacon called Mike Kuznia and he promptly showed up with his son in law in tow. Mike was a great guy, and of course knew about us and our family since Tom Wilebski was married to his aunt. He explained that before uncle Tom left for St. Paul and the railroad job, he was a carpenter in the Florian area and also was responsible for many of the early cement grave markers in the area. Who would have known?

O.K. so far so good. But again we were faced with the dilema of the original cross. When we tried to jiggle this one loose, it would not budge. Darren shoved his shovel down a couple feet behind the cross and hit cement. His and our thoughts were they have poured a huge slab of concrete and that we would never be able to budge this baby. The prospects that were available to us then were not all that great, since we would be forced to put the new marker on the other end of the grave. And that meant it would be almost out of view and under a row of spruce trees. Realizing the goo that oozes from spruce trees unabated over the months and years, gloom descended upon our small group.

Thankfully, Peggy kept insisting that we move the existing monument, or at least try to see just how much trouble it would be. I have to say knowing Mrs. Peggy for as long as I have, I have come to appreciate her mild mannered insistence. I'm sure the Stennes guy rolled his eyes, but we listened to Peggy and it was a good thing. As we came to find out later, the cement that Darren hit was the outline of the grave. And here's the funny part, or unusual at least. Since there were some very dramatic sand storms in this area during the depression in the late 20's and early 30's, the graves had accummulated an additional foot and a half of dirt since Antonia was buried. Amazing!

Upon digging out the original cross, we found additional inscriptions. Joey was quick to get a bucket of water and clean it off so that after we placed it, it could be read. I've included a couple of pics of the before and after.

The only other issue that arose was in connection with the placement of the new marker. Since the majority of the "fronts" of the markers faced East, that would mean to comply our marker would be viewed primarily by the spruce trees and would not be viewable to someone entering the cemetary. So, the dilema was how could we circumvent this implied rule without offending the locals. The Stennes guy came up with a solution. He said that for a few hundred more U.S. dollars, he could bring the stone back to the shop and put some limited wording on the back side to comply, while still retaining all of the good stuff and the picture on the side most people would see....our "front" side.

Executive decision made amongst the cousins and the stone was heading back to the shop for the additional lettering. While the stone did not get placed on Monday, we are led to believe it should be done in the not too distant future.

Should any of you ever have the opportunity to make it to this graveyard, you will probably notice there are more of our relatives buried here than at Kroze. Although other than Antonia and Paul, there are no others with the last name of Wilebski. But, you will see a ton of Kuznias, Kazmierzaks, Prices, etc.

FYI, Peter Wilebski's son Paul buried not too far away from Antonia.

Hope you enjoy the pictures and the story of the end of this 15 year quest to honor our great grandparents. And yes, we can use any donations you can spare to reimburse the family member that fronted this endeavor.


Kathy Wilebski Schafer said...

Thanks to you all, Peggy, Joe, and Fred. How great it all worked out so well. Mike Kuznia is a super person and I am so happy he was around to help you with the work and give input. We will try to support the project over here as well, Fred. I know you have paid the brunt of the cost involved. And I am happy you found the east side of the cemetary with Mike's help. Sorry I wasn't there to show it to you, but when the date was cancelled from the week before our vacation overlapped with this Monday when it finally took place that Stennes showed up.

Grandpa Jerome said...

Both graveyards look good.

Thanks to you, Joey and Peggy for all the hard work and executive decisions, but I don't think you would make it as executives, since you would have to go back to the planning room and have several meetings to schedule meetings. You did it the right way, adjust on the fly.

Good Job To All,

Cousin Lon

Kathy Wilebski Schafer said...

Oops, I guess it was Deacon Courtney who showed you the map and helped find Antonia's grave.
John and Lucy Wilebski are also in the Florian cemetary.

Kathy Wilebski Schafer said...

A Polish lady from Roseau helped to interpret the Polish on the original headstone for Antonia so Fred asked me to post it for anyone who is interested.
Spo.w.Bogi (she said it should be Bogu) means "resting in God" or "at peace with God". The full unabbreviated phrase would be "Spoczywa w Bogi" (or Bogu). "Marya" at the bottom would refer to the Blessed Virgin Mary. Most often it is "Ave Marya" but possibly there wasn't room. Also in the center U.R.-- the date of birth is usually put on Polish gravemarkers. But I said the date behind is her date of death--so I am not sure if it is U.R. or U.N. written before 1914. There is a Polish word "umierac" meaning "die" and also "umieralnosc" meaning "mortality" in my Polish dictionary. I am looking forward to seeing it on site to take a closer look at the inscription.

Kathy Wilebski Schafer said...

I just noticed there is a "Tu" at the very top above "Spo.w.Bogu". The moss has covered it to make it hardly legible. In my dictionary it says "tu" means "here".
"Here, resting in God, Antonia Wilebski"...